The Negativity Continues…

Yet another family member is upset with me again. This time its my Mom’s parents. They absolutely refuse to attend the wedding as they do not want to come back to Findlay on that weekend even after we offered to fly them in.

Mentally, I cannot take much more of this. I am literally at a breaking point ready to go psychotic. Why on earth is everyone set against this weekend when NO ONE HAS ANYTHING FILLING IT UP! The weekend is entirely free for everyone and they are MAD AT ME!!! They want their convenience to be a determining factor on when Kami and I get married!!! How in the world does that make any sense?

Why do they get to decide when Kami and I wish to celebrate our wedding anniversary? Why do they get to say, “Sorry, we do not have anything planned on that weekend, but it is inconvenient for us”? Why do they constantly try to control everything regarding my life? Why can’t they just let go? Why is it that no matter what accomplishments I make, they always walk on the negative side of things or assume negative thoughts? In all honesty, I am finding it hard to invite my family. Sad isn’t it?

I am not changing the date, I will not give in to their whining and whimpering, and I will offer to fly up my Mom’s parents once more in a few months. If they say ‘No’, well TOO BAD. I will not ensure that the ceremony is video taped for them, as it was their decision to not be a part of it! My family sucks (this is my ranting and I probably do not fully belive it, but at this point I am feeling it)!